Coincidence or Fate?
              or
Is Coincidence Fate?


note: the following situation is real but the questions are purely hypothetical.


Let's say you were supposed to go to a show on a Saturday night and said show was postponed due to unpredictable circumstances (namely planes and the weather), was this night's plans delayed due to the fact that negative things which needed to be prevented we're going to happen?

How far back was this fate planned (the cancelation of the event or the things which would have happened at said event) and how many people would have been affected by to much negative aura?

Perhaps the ratio of negative to positive things was to imbalanced that night. Too many negative things were going to happen that weren't supposed to and would too intensely alter a larger fate.  And so fate, or whatever, decided to step in and have the whole thing postponed to a night where the larger fate of a larger mass of people would stay intact. 

Fate is always changing but in the end we're still on the same path we've always been.  It's just a question of if the things that happen to us are a purely coincidental with no real meaning besides the random or of they're part of some greater thing. In the end we have free will and the opportunities for us to follow a predestined path are there, and so it is up to us to take them or not.  They open and they close in front of us.  It's like, ever get that feeling that something is about to happen and you are sure you are supposed to do it?  Or that you shouldn't? These are the doors to our destiny, if you would call it that.  Every opportunity, every chance we take will only lead to more chances and opportunities leading us down a never ending path to.. to where? Who knows.  (does it end?  that's a whole other subject).  But regardless, it's crazy to think of why certain things happen and if they we're "meant" to happen or if they really have no greater purpose.