it's just because you have a preconceived idea of what sexuality has to be .

you're so used to what society has ingraved into your brain .

all you know of is the norm, what goes on here and what people are expected to be like
and its not always like that, sexuality isn't just about being with one person for the rest of your life, sex isn't just about a love for one person. it could be about an emotional connection, it could be about fulfilling some fantasy, it could be for the simple pleasure of the act, and it could be about love.

it could be so very many things, you see.